When parents are waiting a baby, they are full of good feeling and hopes, but it is really hard when they hear that their baby is going to suffer from down syndrome, and it is more worse, that he will keep suffering till the end of his life, they will have an abnormal child, who is different than others, and they should know how to deal with him.
If they are well known how to deal with this (i will not call it abnormal) different child, the whole results may change, it is really an important issue, which can be reflected on our society, we can't ignore those people, and we can't isolate them, they are humans, and they have their rights, and their responsibilties in the society, and we can get great results if we know how to deal with them.
first of all, from the moment when parents know about thier child, they should start teaching themselves about this disorder, and how to deal with, and which problems thier child may face.
Starting by finding suitable organizations, which can offer special programs to develop thier mental ability, and learn about some educational games which can help in cognitive development, and speech development, then, finding which environment is better for them, and providing them with TV programs, or even computer games,also helping them to have friends.
finally, many of those kids who have down syndrome have completed thier high school education, even more they joined colleges and finished thier study, also they have their job, and work as a labor force.
A message for parents:
It is really difficult to hear that you have a kid with different abilities, and who is different than any other, but it is a grace, which needs from you to be patient, and to know how to deal with it, after you discover this small creature, you will find him really different, it lost many things, but also it has many other replacement, you should believe on its ability and skills, have a positive feeling toward him, trust him, then encourage, provide them good environment, and remember, always remember that you should'nt give them the feeling that they are abnormal, its like you have raw material, and if you know how to use, you will have great results,
finally, always be proud of your kid, don't isolate him, or feel shy to show him, you should be good enough to deserve him.....
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